The Book

Coming Home to Passion lays out common relationship difficulties suffered by survivors of childhood trauma and neglect. It is easy to think you are unique or even hopelessly damaged by your childhood experiences, or perhaps you don’t even know why you feel so bad.

This book is about much more than sexuality, although it does put a spotlight on that area of relationship. It is designed to make sense out of some of the daily agony; to let you know you are not alone, and to help orient you to what you can do. The tone is hopeful as healing is not easy or quick, but very do-able!

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Testimonials from the experts

“I highly recommend this as an insightful and incisive book that describes trauma and its consequences in new and original ways.”

Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.

Medical Director Trauma Center at JRI; Director, Complex Trauma Treatment Network, NCTSN; Professor of Psychiatry,

"A powerful must-read based on years of research, clinical experience and riches of the heart. A comprehensive work you'll refer to again and again. Coming Home to Passion gives you compassion and competence to manage the most difficult of life's challenges. Each chapter made me look forward to the next."

Pat Love, Ed.D.

Author, The Truth About Love

The Upcoming Book

My new book, Too Much of Nothing: Working with the Developmental Trauma of Childhood Neglect, is in its very early stages. It will be all about the sorely neglected topic of childhood neglect; particularly as it affects relationship and sexuality.

News, progress and sneak previews will be posted as the book gestates and grows. Stayed tuned!